Squire Parsons: Sharing His Faith Through Music

By Karen Brewer, Publisher & Editor

 

“I’m paraphrasing Charles Spurgeon, who said, ‘Blessed be the storm that drives us to Christ.’ Whenever we take the time to search His Word and to pray during a crisis, although it is difficult going through those times, if we will take it to the Lord and lay it at His feet, He truly will be a high tower of defense and a shelter for us, and we will see Christ in a way we never saw Him before.” In an interview with The Christian View magazine, Squire Parsons explained how his Christian faith has sustained him during difficult times. “Each fiery trial that we pass through strips us of things that are unnecessary around our faith,” he said. “That which remains is our faith. Much dross sometimes becomes mingled with our faith. I’ve observed that, when we have to walk through these times of trials, we need to realize that it may seem to be out of control to us, but we’re still in God’s hands. When that is settled in our lives, it is a steadying force and a comfort in knowing that we are in His hands and that, though we may not understand what is happening, if we trust and believe that He will lead us through, He becomes that much more gracious to us at that time.”

Parsons said that the moment a person become a Christian, he or she begins a journey. “It’s a journey of faith, to try to grow in grace,” he said. “The Lord has manifested Himself so many times through the years to me, through the study of His Word, and through songwriting, and also being with His people in the churches. It has been a wonderful experience. There have been hardships. There have been times of feeling defeated, but His grace has been sufficient. It has been wonderful. I’ve received much more than I’ve been able to give.”

Parsons said that he would like to be remembered as a person who tried to do his best.

After many years in the music industry, and a lifetime in music, as he said he cannot remember a time when he did not want to sing, Parsons has been honored many times for his singing and for his songwriting ability. Through the years, he has been honored by readers of The Singing News magazine as Favorite Baritone, Favorite Gospel Songwriter, and Favorite Gospel Male Singer. He has been nominated for the Dove Award, given by the Gospel Music Association, as favorite male vocalist and songwriter. He has also been given the prestigious Marvin Norcross Award from The Singing News, and has been guest soloist at First Baptist Church of Atlanta, Georgia pastored by Dr. Charles Stanley and in a Billy Graham Crusade in Little Rock, Arkansas for the Rev. Dr. Billy Graham.

A prolific songwriter who has penned more than 1,000 songs, he is known for such songs as “Sweet Beulah Land”, “Master of the Sea”, “Oh, What a Moment”, “The Broken Rose”, “He Came to M”, “I Call it Home”, “I Sing Because”, and “Hello, Mama.”

“Sweet Beulah Land”, which was named in 1981 as Song of the Year by readers of The Singing News, is his favorite, he said. “It has been our most popular song,” he added. “It’s what people mostly identify with me. I wrote it in 1973 and recorded it in 1979 on my first solo recording.”

Another favorite is “He Came to Me.” “It shares my heart,” he said. “I enjoy singing that each night.

“ “Hello, Mama” is a story about a fellow calling his mother, telling her that he had been saved.”

Another favorite, “I’m Not Giving Up”, was recorded by the Gold City Quartet.

““Look for Me at Jesus’ Feet” has also been a very special song,” he added. “It was one of the first songs that I wrote for my wife, Linda, in 1970.”

He began writing songs as a college student in 1968, after a friend, Conrad Cook, asked him if he had ever considered it. Cook, he said, was one of the many people who have influenced his life. Cook had returned to college around 1968 to finish his degree. “At the same time,” said Parsons, “I had been praying that the Lord would send someone I could share with and who would be a friend to me. The first day of my junior year, someone introduced us, and said, ‘Conrad Cook, you need to meet this guy, Squire Parsons. He loves Gospel music, too.’ From that point on, we spent much time together. We enjoyed talking about Gospel music and singing together.

“I still enjoy writing, re-doing some of the older songs, rewriting them and making them more up to date. Also, a project that has really been a blessing to me is paraphrasing the Psalms and setting that to music. My desire is to try to present those in a recorded form and also in published form.”

The time in writing a song varies, he said. “Some songs have been less than an hour. Some, I’m still working on, after 30 years.”

His songs have been recorded by many other Gospel music recording artists.

Parsons said that he sings and writes Gospel music because it allows him an opportunity to share his faith, which, he said, is most important. “Of course, there is certainly much more money in every other kind of music, and other kinds are more widely accepted,” he said. “But people have a love to share their faith and their experiences in serving the Lord. For me, there is nothing that comes close to that, no other theme, no other style. Like the old hymn says, “No one thrills my soul like Jesus.””

He began singing at an early age. His father’s brothers would often visit on Saturdays and sing together with his father. “That was so special to me,” he said. “Our family sang together,” he added. “I was always wanting to sing. We spent so much time in church, either practicing singing or going to services. Church was the center of our life. And, then, having been raised on a farm, I didn’t have many activities with other people, so I spent a lot of time playing the piano, singing in a tape recorder, going through old songbooks.”

He counts many of the old hymns among his favorites, including “How Firm a Foundation”; “Holy, Holy, Holy”; and “He Hideth My Soul.”

His father, Squire Parsons, Sr., was the choir director in their church. “He taught the old-fashioned shape notes style of music,” said Parsons. “He led the congregational singing. The songs he taught me were a lot of songs like we sing on the Gaither Homecoming videos now. I’m glad that I learned those, so I could sing them later.”

His parents, he said, had the most profound influence on his life, when he grew up in West Virginia. “My Dad has already gone to be with the Lord, but my mother is still living,” he said. “They were wonderful Christian parents, wonderful examples. The love we all had at home in my early life surrounded me with a wonderful launching pad. We had prayer every day and read the Bible. They were the greatest Christians I’ve ever known.” He called his mother, Maycel Josephine Parsons, his prayer warrior and “a very dear lady.”

Parsons was saved at the age of nine and grew up in Newton Missionary Baptist Church. “It was a small church, so everyone knew each other,” he said. “Maybe 100 folks attended each service, and they were people you worked with and went to school with, and how fitting that they would be the people you would worship with, too. My Dad was my Sunday School teacher, as a young adult, so that has been a wonderful memory to me. Homecoming Day has always stayed in my mind, because we would have special singing. I was always interested in the music, and it always thrilled me when we had guest singers to come in and sing for us. Of course, I always looked forward to the food, too. And Christmas programs and other times are all part of the memories of my childhood that are just wonderful.”

His Pastor, who was also his elementary school principal, was one of his heroes, he said.

“I was very fortunate to be surrounded by wonderful people in the education system,” he added. “My teachers in high school, including Doc Brown and Edward Vineyard, really encouraged me to follow music. I was involved in all-state chorus, and I was involved in church music and quartet music.

“But, in college, I turned down music scholarships in spite of all that, because I wanted to make money. I started out in civil engineering at West Virginia Institute of Technology, but I did receive a degree in music education, and my vocal instructor, Guy Baker, was very encouraging. But he did not like southern Gospel music, and he gave me a rough time, because I sang it. He did not like it, because many times it was sung differently from the style that he wanted.

“I was a bass soloist and also sang with the choir at Christ Church United Methodist Church in Charleston, West Virginia. That was a wonderful experience, because it exposed me to the high church type of worship. I had always been involved in a country church setting, very informal, but this was good experience, which worked alongside my study in music education.

“After a year and a half there, I became interim Minister of Music at Calvary Baptist Church in West Charleston, West Virginia. It was also more the classical style of music. I did the choral work there until about 1970.

“Then, I was employed by the Mason County Board of Education as a band director at Hannan High School and Junior High, and I had the feeder programs.

“At that time, I started singing, with my brother and friends, on the weekends for my true love, Southern Gospel music. For one date, we sang with the Kingsmen Quartet, from Asheville, North Carolina. They asked me to join them, and, a year and a half later, I did join them. I moved to North Carolina and went into full-time Gospel music in 1975.”

His father offered him advice when he first started out. “Some people were criticizing me about different things, and I was becoming a little upset about it,” he said. “He told me, ‘Son, if you’re doing what God would have you to do, you’re doing the right thing. God will be your defense. And, if His hand is upon you, and things are accomplished for the work of God, nothing can shake you then.’”

His Pastor at that time, Dr. Ralph Sexton, Sr., also told Parsons, “You’re going to go through some difficult times yourself, but, when you see the attack from the adversary upon your family, that will be one of the hardest things.’

“And then there was a preacher back in West Virginia I had seen years before, when I was singing part-time and had sung at his church,” said Parsons. “We were on a flight together, and I recognized him. He said, ‘Son, I’m glad to see the Lord has blessed and that you’re in full-time ministry now.’ He said, ‘Do you have your mystery bag?’ I said, ‘Sir, what do you mean?’ He said, ‘If you’re going to stay in the ministry, you’ve got to have a mystery bag, because some things are going to happen that you’re not going to have the answer for, that you’ll not be able to understand. Those things we have to put in the mystery bag and trust God that someday He will show us why those things had to be.’ Oh, how true that has been.”

Other influences throughout his career have included Dr. Billy Graham and Dr. Charles Stanley, “People like this have been an encouragement and such an honor to be around,” he said. “One of the persons who was so instrumental in putting us together was Maurice Templeton with Templeton Tours. He introduced me to these people and put us together on the tours and cruises. He was a blessing and was very instrumental in the ministry and also with his friendship.

“Eldridge Fox, who was the owner and manager of the Kingsmen Quartet, was a great friend, also. He and Maurice Templeton, in the earlier years of my life, probably helped me more than I’ll ever be able to realize. I am certainly indebted to them.

“Many wonderful people in Gospel music have been close friends through the years. It’s a family. It’s not just been a business, but it’s been a family.

 

 

 “Bill and Gloria Gaither have been such a great encouragement to all of us, being a part of the Gaither videos. I’m certainly thrilled to be a part of that. They are wonderful and inspiring people to be around. We do a few of the concerts. It’s really a homecoming. A lot of work is involved, but it is a wonderful time for us to be together. There is a heartache as we gather and see empty chairs, so to speak, but, then, we see the ‘changing of the guard’ as those chairs are filled with others. That’s the way the Lord has ordained it through the years, that it would continue this way. But we sure miss our dear friends who have gone on.”

The greatest influence in his life is his family, especially his wife, Linda, who he married in 1970. “She has been my encourager and my friend,” he said. “She is the one who has given me the perspective from her view and has been my ‘right arm.’

“I have two brothers and a sister who have also been great encouragers in the Lord,” he added.

“My wife’s family has always been very close to us and very much encouraging, also.”

The Parsonses have four adult children, Seth, Amy, Leigh, and Samuel.

Parsons has special memories through the years from traveling and taking their ministry to the local churches, having his family join with him on the road.

He was ordained through the Baptist church, his home church of Trinity Baptist in Asheville, but he said that he does not have a preference of denomination of the Christian faith. “I wrote a song entitled “It’s Not What’s Over the Door,’” he said. “It’s what’s in your heart that’s the most important thing. I’m mostly in Baptist churches, and I appreciate that, but, every once in awhile, we’re in another denomination. Really, it’s the people and the Pastor and how the Spirit of the Lord meets with us that make it so important.”

His favorite scripture includes Isaiah 62:4, where the word ‘Beulah’ is found. “It refers to the land of Israel,” he said, “but, when the word ‘Beulah’ is translated, it means ‘married’, ‘united.’ That’s why we sing of the heavenly Beulah Land.” Another favorite verse is Psalm 25:14: “The secret of the LORD is with them that fear Him; and He will shew them His covenant.” “The very popular Psalms 23 is very dear to me, and also the seventeenth chapter of John,” he added.

His advice to young singers or songwriters is to stay close to God. “Trust Him, and, as you grow, make sure that you build your foundation spiritually, or else the building at some point may crumble on you. Keep your relationship with Christ and your study in His Word consistent. Get all of the education you can, attained in a godly way. Go as far as God would open the door and learn your craft and study it as much as you can, so that you can be a workman, as the Bible says, that needed not to be ashamed; study to show yourselves approved.”

His advice for fellow Christians is to grower closer in their walk with the Lord. “The most important thing is to know that we belong to Christ, and to grow in faith and try to be established, because, as we become older, our faith becomes that much more precious to us,” he said. “And it is so much more vulnerable to the adversary,” he added. “So try to grow and build our relationship and closeness to Christ more and more.”

Spiritual warfare, he said, is very real. “Some people wonder, ‘Is this thing real, or is it a figment of our imagination?’ To me, it is the greatest evidence that, whenever you’re striving to do right, it is the hardest thing to do many times. Why is it so hard to do the right thing and so easy to do the wrong thing? It’s evidence that there is spiritual warfare going on. If there was not spiritual warfare, then we would not find the resistance that we have. It would be just as easy to do the right thing. That shows us that there is spiritual warfare and the adversary wants to keep us from the saving knowledge of Christ. ‘But we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against spiritual wickedness in high places.’ The whole armor of God – that is such a deep text, and necessary for us to pray about and really dig to find out what God is saying to us in that scripture, because it is such a deceiving warfare that we’re in, and it’s a battle for our mind. If we do not have these questions settled, it will erode the basis of our faith, on which we’re building everything. These principles need to be addressed and settled in our mind, if we’re going to have a foundation to stand on.”

The unsaved, he said, need to know that they are going to spend eternity somewhere. “If they are not certain that they would be with Christ, they should call upon Him and receive Him as Lord and Saviour for their life,” he said. “My prayer is that they’ll hear His voice, feel Him drawing them right now to Him, that He may manifest Himself to them as Lord and Saviour.”